Carol (2016)

Although Christmas is a time of year for love and cheer for all, holiday cinema has not always represented diverse communities. Being a holiday with Christian origins, much of its media consists of straight white families or straight white romances. Luckily, modern years have been bringing with them plenty of POC and LGBTQ+ representation that the holidays so desperately need. Here are just a few to get you started!

Notice: If watching with children, it would be good to do some more research on these films, depending on the age of your child. Number 2, Jingle Jangle, is technically the only one marketed towards children, and several others may not be child-friendly at all.

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While film and TV still have a long way to go when it comes to LGBT representation, there are so many more opportunities for LGBT people to see themselves onscreen than there were even a few years ago. Best of all, some of the best LGBT films and shows are available online for free or on popular streaming services that you might already be subscribed to. Here are some of my top picks for films and TV shows with positive LGBT representation, sorted by where you can find them. (Note: This list is accurate as of June 2021, but streaming libraries change frequently.)

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How to describe Todd Haynes’ 2015 Carol? The 1950s lesbian romance is stunning, emotional, restrained, and, simply put, one of the best movies I’ve ever seen depicting a woman-loving-woman (WLW) relationship. The story, focused on innocent Therese Belivet (Rooney Mara) and sophisticated Carol Aird (Cate Blanchett), beautifully delivers a romance that is characterized by longing, loss, and love.

From the moment that Carol and Therese first catch a glimpse of each other from across a crowded department store around Christmas-time, it’s obvious that they will form a connection. On the surface, their interaction is nothing special — Therese sells Carol a toy train set. However, there is a lingering note of flirtation underlying the entire scene that just begins to hint at the subtle intensity that is itself one of the most striking elements of Carol. Some of its most passionate moments are conveyed through a simple glance, a hand on a shoulder, a smile.

The stunning performances in the movie add greatly to this quiet emotional intensity. The innocence of Mara’s Therese contrasts perfectly with Blanchett’s Carol, who is achingly elegant. You can feel both of their emotions through the simplest shift in their facial expressions.

I would also be remiss if I weren’t to mention the beautiful atmosphere of the movie as a whole. The 1950s settings are lush, from a bustling New York City around the holidays to Therese’s simple apartment, to Carol’s grand home, to hotel rooms with varying degrees of stunning richness, to their decor. The soundtrack that underlies it all contributes to the viewer’s sense of the time period and swells at all the appropriate moments to add passion and intensity to its scenes.